As for power wholesale versus retail, they should calculate your bill by net power units. If you provide 1000kWh and consume 1000kWh, they shouldn't charge you 1000x 12c and pay you 1000x 8c. You already pay about $60/mo for infrastructure ($30 of customer fees, plus infrastructure usage fees).
Keep in mind that people's electric bills can vary vastly on a charge basis. My static charges are only $40 here, and were even less at my last place.
It all depends on how you set your meter(s) up, but net metering on a monthly basis is the 'cheapest', you only need 1 dumb meter.
There are slightly more complex meters that will run different 'in' and 'out' meters depending on electricity flow. So, for your theoretical 1k kwh consuming house with exactly matching solar power production(on an average basis), you might get 300 kwh on both meters because the solar power feeds your house FIRST.
So you earn $24 for selling 300 kwh, pay $36 for buying power, plus the $60 fee, giving you a $72 bill for the month. BTW, is it possible that with such a large fee, especially with a static 'infrastructure' one of that size, that your utility is already 'bracing' for extensive adoptions of solar?
Generally you'll set up the meter(s) depending on the 'best' situation given your area. In some areas that might even mean having 'time of use' capable meters, so you're getting paid spot price. Which works out so long as daytime power averages more than nighttime.