Oh my god. Islamic nations are not the same as Japanese is not the same as Korean is not the same as India. In fact India has had a long and tumultuous history of dealing with Islamic invaders who slaughtered their leaders and people.
You haven't even spoken to any of these people. You sit at home in front of your computer, isolated from the rest of the world's cultures, with not a clue as to how these societies actually work. It's so easy for Americans or Europeans to dismiss other societies as inferior, oppressive, ruled by violence. These words are so obscene and heavy, filled with the worst kind of accusations. You've put yourself on this absurd pedestal of superiority.
You honestly think billions of people, hundreds of millions of families, are carrying on lives where half the population is living in utter fear and misery? That they feel scared, helpless, controlled, etc.? Do you have a clue what you're trying to say? How could these extremely communal societies that emphasize harmony function like that for thousands of years? How does that jive with studies like this that show women feel less safe in developed countries: http://www.gallup.com/poll/155...
How can you make proclamations without at least interacting with these cultures?