Comment It's negotiable... (Score 1) 182
In the end, I hold one rule: If my employer is paying for, then I'm representing them at the conference. Their name is on the registration, etc. If I am paying for it, then I'm a free agent during the conference and I'm representing myself and myself alone. If it's somewhere in between, well...best to play it safe and act like you're representing your employer because they'll probably think of it that way.
So, if you really want to go, then go on your own dime, as a free-agent. And make it clear to them that that will be the case unless they want to poney up at least some of the money for the conference. Who knows, may be there is some other opportunity they could use a well while you're in the area to make it more than just a conference trip too. But you'll have to negotiate all of that.