Judgmental much? What exactly is a "better person" according to your criteria?
Sure, I guess. A "better person" would be one that tries to be a better person rather than simply being content and happy with whatever they're handed. Sure, if they could be happy while struggling with something that's outside their safety zone, that'd be great. And if they find the "happily tenacious" gene, I'd be down with switching that on. But currently I see a sliding scale between being content and being driven. If geneticists selected for kids to be happy, I imagine they'd have a batch of kids that didn't really see the point in studying and working hard.
Lots of people work hard, even in a "menial" blue-collar job.
Whoa whoa whoa. There are a shit-ton of blue-collar jobs that aren't menial. Mechanics have a full spectrum of skills from noob to master. And a certified areospace mechanic can make some serious bank. In short, that's a blue collar job that isn't a dead end. No, I was talking about actual dead-end jobs: retail, fry-cook, maid, fruit-picker. These are jobs which simply have no career advancement and don't develop any skills. As anyone can do them, you face a lot of competition from people that didn't have the same opportunities that your typical GENE-SELECTED BABY FROM WEALTHY PARENTS have. It's a common trope that the rich or gifted kid is expected to "succeed" (which carries it's own problems). That will be expanded if you also have tweaked genes.
work is what you do to get money to do the REST OF THINGS, which is your ACTUAL LIFE
Yeah, and as an engineer, I have to do so very much less then a fruit picker to get enough money to do the things in my "actual life". Trust me, life is simply easier and better with a higher income.
I'd rather have a kid who could be satisfied and happy in his life, even if he worked what you call a "dead-end job" and had good relationships with friends. As long as he's happy and able to support himself, why do you care what he does? What makes him a "bad person"?
Well, in a modern first-world society that isn't some libertarian hell-scape, the answer is because I'm taxed and he's not. And I'm subsidizing his lifestyle. But hey, if he's got a job, he's probably still a net-gain for society. Statistically though, the poorer he is the less likely it is that he will be happy, or be able to support himself. It's a real roll of the dice, but I hope to load the dice a little by making sure my kid has good grades.
Also, what does he do when he's a 40 year old laid-off bus-boy with no marketable skills? Have kids and hope one of them will support him? Uh........
Point taken about the ambitious jerks. It's a balancing act really.