I am not so sure, small scale battles may be feasible. But yes, they probably will be over quite quick and deadly. First, no maned space fighters. Drones can outperform a human pilot easily. You may see larger done carrier ships that are maned, but if they know what is good for them they will try to hang back as far as possible. The ships may have point defenses, but probably no real offensive capabilities. A few high powered lasers to blast asteroids or debris out of the way; not destroy, just heat one side to form a plasma and push it out of the ship's path. That is a better idea than to waste fuel to maneuver around obstacles.
As for weapons, there are multiple options. Interestingly for low yield weapons kinetic projectiles are the way to go. Either you use as the video discussed "cannonballs" but also missiles without explosive charges may do the trick. On the high yield side you can use nukes. Here the radiation is the primary factor, not the blast. The radiation will melt most materials at close range and irradiate anything at far range. Lasers may work at close range, but you will need to find a power source to bring up the energy and keep it cool. You could use gamma ray lasers if you are attacking human targets.
But you are right, when you are going for the kill and are ready to wipe out an entire planet. all you need to do is strap some rockets to a larger asteroid, put it on a collision course and wait.
Then again you may want to keep the few resources you want to control intact. Here way more nefarious techniques make be employed. Assassinate all leaders that oppose joining the empire. Deploy nano bots, like bacteria that kill all high ranking officers of the enemy's armed forces at a certain day in the future.
Unless human nature changes radically, we will see conflict; but it won't be Star Wars.