Not at all... The word is not offensive. The simple collection of letters is not offensive. It's the intent behind the use of the word that is offensive.
That's what you would think. However as I stated in my original post, people are so afraid of this one word that they will not say it even when it is appropriate and not being used in a derogatory manner. Such as quoting someone.
And so, when you put on your pointy white hat and call a black guy the n-word, it's highly offensive, because you intend it to be. When the same black guy calls his friend that, it's not offensive, because he does not intend it to be.
I hope your are speaking figuratively and not literally claiming that I I own a "pointy white hat" thus inferring that I am a member of the KKK.
Actually, you're the one that sounds like a whiny biatch: "Oh, woe is me! I'm so white and anglo-saxon, and I don't get to use terms that are highly offensive to people without being thought of as highly offensive! Boo hoo! Boo hoo! I'll just have to cry myself to sleep on my bed made of unearned privileges, dreaming of encountering police without trepidation, and earning 10-20% more the same work! Boo hoo!" Get over yourself. You're whining about the fact that you can't call people names that you know will offend them with impunity. That's one of the most pathetic things I've ever heard.
Way to make assumptions. While I'm part "Anglo", I'll certainly never be welcomed by the KKK you so kindly mentioned earlier. Additionally, I'm not whining that I can't call someone a derogatory name. I simply wish we as a people wold stop trying to segregate ourselves from each other. Either a term is OK for everyone to use, or it's not. I worked 50 hours a week on the night shift to support myself during my last two years of high school, and did the same through college and worked my ass of in the summers to pay for it. I knew so little about "the system" that I didn't even know about scholarships and grants until after I graduated. NOTHING was handed to me. And certainly nothing I've done was due to "unearned privileges". Being on your own at 15 also has issue of not having the greatest of judgement at times. So I had my fair share of run ins with the law as well in my youth.
But please, feel free to keep making assumptions of how superior you are.