Do you think it was needed in the past when racism was stronger and had a strong grip on the whole system?
Well now, there's a difference between "Having an all white school" / "Having an equal opportunity school" / "Having a school that gives preferential treatment to anyone that's not white" The first is moral repugnant. The second is how, at least I, think things should work. The third, again in my opinion, is just as repugnant and discriminatory as the first. How are we supposed to get past racism if our way of dealing with it is just as discriminatory as the racism it's designed to remedy? I don't think any form, for any government or business should ever have a "Race" box on it.
Do you know why I adopted a black kid from another country? When we decided to adopt, we went to the adoption agency... they asked us if we wanted to Adopt "Domestically" (the US) or Internationally. We of course said "Domestically" because it was going to be a lot easier. You meet the birth mother, she accepts you, you tell your insurance company whats going on, they reimburse her for her medical expenses, you get a kid! What could be easier?
They gave me the forms to fill out... all of our personal and financial info, etc.. etc..
How healthy of a child would you accept?
Disabled?
Major medical problems?
Minor problem?
No health problems?
That made me a bit uncomfortable. We're not rich so I put down minor problems.
Would you accept a child that's been the victim of abuse?
Yes, but I still didn't like the question.
What race would you accept
White?
Other?
that's it. White or other.
I refused to fill it out. I took it back to them. That's when they informed me that when you adopt from the United states of America there are 2 programs. They had fancy names for them but what it came down to was there was a "white" program and there was a minority program. I absolutely refused to adopt from the US because of that. I could have picked a the "Other" program but I found the entire thing repugnant to say the least.
Now, I knew when I adopted from Africa that I was probably going to get a black kid. But no other country on earth let you specify the race of the child. You got the next kid that was up for adoption that met your age and health requirements. Other than that, you didn't get to make a distinction. I was morally ok with that, though the health thing I'm not too sure about. But I also didn't want to get bankrupted by medical bills.
So I'm not just full of shit. Adopting from the US would have cost me out of pocket about $5k. Adopting from Africa cost me over $40k, my kid was Mal-nourished, riddled with Parasites (took 2 years to finally get him healthy) and I don't want to even tell you how horrible the trip was. All so I didn't have to check that box. I'm glad I didn't. I have the best kid ever.
(side note: I've been called out on my adoption details before. So I just want to state ahead of time, the laws and rules of adoption change from country to country, and from year to year, even weekly. So if you or someone you know had a different experience, that's entirely possible. Adoption law is constantly in flux because it's obviously a very sensitive issue for everyone involved. The statements I made above were true at the time I went through the process)