other than housing the remainder is basically flat anywhere
Housing is a large portion of many people's incomes. Going from $500/m for a 2 bedroom 3 level duplex with a 2 stall garage where I live, to who knows what in a big city, is probably a big difference. Not to mention getting to/from anywhere in the city is about 5-10 minutes no matter what time of the day.
I understand not having a yard because mowing does suck, but I hate small places. Most people who have two kids and a wife probably think differently about having a small place to live, unless you want your kid's play room in your living room, which spills into your kitchen, then you invite friends over and they bring their kids.
I hate going out. Not much intellectually stimulating at most "fun" places. A lot more challenges my mind on the Internet.
Different people, different priorities I guess.
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