I especially liked the link to "empathy is a core engineering value" though: http://www.listbox.com/member/...
Linked from: https://www.joyent.com/blog/th...
And if so, should not empathy extend throughout all levels of a learning organization, including between managers and subordinates? Everyone is learning stuff all the time, including about cultural changes. Firing someone rather than trying to understand the situation and the individual's motives more first and whether change is needed or possible does not seem "empathic". Perhaps that is the kind of thing you tend to learn after many years of experience being a parent or other long-term caregiver (including a long-term manager or mentor) when you see someone learn and grow and change over a long time?
Plus, as other comments suggest here, there is an assumption in this blog post that may ignore the possibility the issue was about consolidating minor changes rather than having them as individual commits. If this issue was deemed by enough of the community to be important, maybe a more systematic patch would indeed be in order? One tiny change is not much work, but it may set a bad precedent?
Also, it is not empathic to coworkers and the rest of a company and community depending on someone to fire that person without notice without reasonable review or attempts at remediation for a less than egregious offense (contrast with, say, someone accused of physically assaulting a coworker). The issue there is proportion and risk/harm assessment.
So, the response of "we would have fired him" seems too extreme in multiple ways.
I am all for meaningful diversity in workgroups, like discussed in this book:
"The Difference: How the Power of Diversity Creates Better Groups, Firms, Schools, and Societies"
http://www.amazon.com/The-Diff...
However, the problem with some of these "politically correct" initiatives or statements which seem on the surface to be helpful to promote "diversity" is that they can actually make workspaces more stressful for *everyone*. Someone can bully with the rules (or their interpretation) just as much, or more, than with a fist... Here is a website by psychologist Izzy Kalman that explores some issues related to bullying and truly creating happy productive workplaces by *really* emphasizing empathy and forgiveness and growth and free speech:
http://bullies2buddies.com/
Just think about it -- does everyone at Joyent now need to be afraid of getting fired if they check the word "he" into the codebase, even by accident? Or maybe by saying "he" accidentally as a meeting? There are potential unintended consequences of creating a different sort of hostile workplace climate, like many US schools are finding out these days as a result of "zero tolerance" policies (like biting a cracker at lunch to make it shaped like a gun can get you in deep deep trouble).
For reference, here is what makes for happy productive creative workplaces in general (Autonomy, Mastery, Purpose):
"RSA Animate - Drive: The surprising truth about what motivates people"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?...
Anyway, these are all complex issues about language, sex, management, control, gender roles, cultural change, recruitment, productivity, norms, and more. They are tricky to talk about or write about without seeming uncaring or inept because of various assumptions people make about the context or the people involved -- and the fact that none of us are "perfect" (and that perfection can be in the eye of the beholder based on priorities). It is sad to see such great software get mired in them. But I guess they are present in some form wherever we go or whatever we do.
BTW, since this whole furor is supposedly at the root about making women feel more accepted and happy in technology, here is a NY TImes story on what has made women happier than average in at least one Western country:
"Why Dutch women don't get depressed"
http://www.nytimes.com/2007/06...
A tangential quote from there: :-)
"Once married, however, sex often took a back seat; for some early Calvinists even sex within marriage was sinful, de Bruin says, and Dutch women sublimated their sexual energy into domestic bullying.
"They ordered the men around - there are many stories of bossy women and subordinate men," she said. "We know this from the literature of the 16th century, and it hasn't changed."
Modern Dutch men are expected to share the chores at home, "without being told, or when told," de Bruin said. The Dutch woman "wants the man to do housework to help her feel equal, but he has to do it her way."
Which perhaps raises the question, do Dutch men get depressed?
Not much, according to de Bruin, who says that the behavior of the sexes evolved simultaneously, that Dutch men like their women bossy while Dutch women are not keen on macho men. Still, she sympathizes with men who have to negotiate a jungle of rules that they never understand and that are always set by women.
"Luckily," she said, "most men have enough Tarzan in them to like a bit of a jungle.""
That is an example of of how happiness relates, in part, to cultural expectations and their acceptance. Reading that, I can perhaps understand my own parent's marriage a bit better (both being immigrants to the USA from the Netherlands) including with a contrast to the family lives of the mostly Catholic Italian and German families I grew up around -- as well as the stereotyped TV families...
Also on that theme of women in the Netherlands:
http://www.economist.com/blogs...
"IN AMERICA, as pretty much everywhere in the world, the happy narrative of development and freedom has involved more women working in the cash economy, achieving financial independence and thus greater autonomy. It's interesting when you find a country that seems to buck these sorts of universal narratives, and as Jessica Olien points out in Slate, the Netherlands bucks the women's-development narrative in a pretty odd fashion: it has extremely high indicators for gender equality in every way (education, political participation, little violence against women, ultra-low rates of teen conception and abortion) except that women don't work. Or not full-time, anyway, at anything like the rates at which women work in most OECD countries. ... "When I talk to women who spend half the week doing what they want -- playing sports, planting gardens, doing art projects, hanging out with their children, volunteering, and meeting their family friends -- I think, yes, that sounds wonderful. I can look around at the busy midweek, midday markets and town squares and picture myself leisurely buying produce or having coffee with friends.""
Personally, I feel the movement of women into the paid workforce (and out of roles in the subsistence, gift, and planned economies, see my website on that) has weakened the USA given men have not moved to take up the slack. As a consequence, in the USA, we see our home life suffering for want of real cooked food from private gardens, our non-profits suffering for lack of volunteers, and our politics failing for lack of anyone to pay attention or get involved as a volunteer in political campaigns or go to town meetings. Plus, women in the USA are a lot more unhappy now than before (according to studies), probably because many of them gave up the potnetial for a role with a lot of autonomy and creativity and mastery (raising kids and running a household) for jobs low status low wage jobs with a lot of supervision. My "gender neutral" approach towards the factoid in the nested quote is to want a "basic income" for everyone in the USA.... :-)
Related study:
"What's Happening To Women's Happiness?"
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/...
"First, since 1972, [in the USA] women's overall level of happiness has dropped, both relative to where they were forty years ago, and relative to men. You find this drop in happiness in women regardless of whether they have kids, how many kids they have, how much money they make, how healthy they are, what job they hold, whether they are married, single or divorced, how old they are, or what race they are. (The one and only exception: African-American women are now slightly happier than they were back in 1972, although they remain less happy than African American men.) ... The second discovery is, this: though women begin their lives more fulfilled than men, as they age, they gradually become less happy. Men, in contrast, get happier as they get older. ..."
That is the cultural backdrop behind so many cultural trends and changes in the USA. So, people are still tinkering with trying to improve that without really asking deep questions about a fundamental shift in most women's lives to ones with less autonomy, mastery, and purpose as they took paying jobs in an economy that has seen stagnant wages (and unpaid overtime) and lots of competition between workers for limited promotions? Sure, working as a software developer at a company like Joyent might seem purposeful (changing the landscape of FOSS web apps we all rely on), but really, most jobs in the USA don't have that level of obvious purpose, in part because work has often become so specialized and compartmentalized.
Obviously expectations about gendered pronouns are in flux in the USA (related to other social changes) and that causes various sorts of stress. Norms are definitely shifting. I pretty much always reword sentences to avoid choosing he/she for individuals or I use "they" incorrectly on purpose. A sentence with "he" for an arbitrary individual person does sound more archaic, although, to me, a sentence with "she" using the alternating she/he style also sounds forced. It's a bit astounding to think that issue has now bubbled up to the point where entire communities are getting forked over it.