Comment Re:Does not sound desirable at all (Score 1) 397
Actually, the combination of the first two results in a deep rooted unshakable self-confidence that is earned by overcoming diversity and the instilled insecurity. If even despite being told daily you cannot possibly succeed, you are not too good and you will amount to nothing, you get ahead, there is pretty much nothing anybody can tell you that would shake your confidence. Further, you will know the exact upper and lower limits of your skills, you will rarely misjudge your own ability and if you decide to do something, it is because you know you will succeed.
Compare this to whatever is being taught in american schools today. The false sense of confidence, that is standing on such flimsy basis, that it takes just couple words to bring any one of those kids to tears or unbalance them so much they won't really have a shot to compete against you, even if they were actually better. I actually see that as immature and imbalanced. Not sure how you reached your baseless conviction that it is the other way around.
I wish I had strong impulse control to compliment those first two. I can see clearly how it impairs me from reaching my full potential.