Comment Re:Where's this desire for "nice" coming from? (Score 2) 361
I want to know what is nice.
In short if people don't like you, no matter how good the technology they won't use it. They will accept the idea of inferior technology in order to get better support or at least not feel belittled. Technology suppose to help, if dealing with the expert makes you feel bad then it won't help.
However there is being nice and then there is being a pushover or a yes man. There are ways you can correct people and insure that they are not going to get screwed over.
How many good developers had Linus pushed away because he was a jerk to them. You can disagree with them, and get your way. But the idea if you disagree with one method then all their methods is just being conceded. As if he was just a little nicer, the next contrabution may have been superior.