Comment Re:Narrow View (Score 1) 428
If he "needed to do that to survive" - then how did he get into that situation? Did someone decide to hold his family hostage and kill him if he didn't rob the store? Or was there a series of events leading up to that choice of his, and that's what he decided to do?
I'm not saying that bad things don't happen to good people. Bad things DO happen to "good people". Trust me, sh** happens to the best of us, and the worst of us. How we cope with that is our decision. To say that the choice is removed is to do nothing, and even that is a conscious choice.
A friend of mine works as a social worker in one of the worst areas of Toronto. He deals with people with severe mental disorders, drug addictions, alcohol issues, abuse problems, people who are in and out of jail on a regular basis. Blame alcohol, drugs, upbringing all you want - some of these people fall into the victim mentality. Many do. Some make the conscious effort, the decision to get out of that situation, to do something different. And they do it! Yes, they go through hell, how they got there can not be isolated to a single choice, however, SOME people make the decision to get out of it, to escape the situation.
In this instance, the mother, not knowing the details or the history, would not expect the son to sue, attack, or threaten her. He could have gone after her with a knife, gun, assaulted her, ignored her, blocked her, destroyed her computer, or dozens of other things... There are things he COULD have done, and very well might have done some of them. And yes, he CHOSE to sue. That's his choice.
I'm not saying they're worthless. But they are responsible, and need to see that.