I respect your point of view and overall I agree with your argument. However I want to pick a nit just in case someone sees this and it lets them avoid parenting pain down the line.
I wanted to point out though that there is a widespread misconception that breastfeeding has been shown to cause better outcomes (health and intelligence) in children. It's true that breastfeeding is strongly correlated with better outcomes and higher achievement later in life. However, breastfeeding is also correlated with wealth and privilege. When you control for these other factors, the signal vanishes.
My wife had some difficulty breastfeeding, which prompted me to do some research in the medical journals to see how important it really is. From what I can tell, it seems like breastfeeding and good outcomes for children are jointly caused by high socioeconomic status. If there's a direct causal link between choosing breastmilk over modern formula, it's very weak. The immunoglobulins in breastmilk are not a significant factor in your baby's overall thriving. Modern formula has all the nutrition a baby needs.
Breastfeeding has some psychological benefits, but it also causes more inequality between the sexes. Overall, my stance is that breastmilk and modern formula are both excellent options for your baby. There's enough evidence to say that if one is better for the baby than the other, it's only by the thinnest of margins. While I applaud breastfeeding support groups, I take a stance against the peer pressure and shaming that often accompany them; some women make it seem like a duty to breastfeed, and like it's child abuse not to. To them, I say "be nice!" I've seen some pretty wacky pressure that's ended in multiple nights of unnecessary tears. Being a parent is hard enough. Coercing a mother to breastfeed is not helpful to anyone.
This opinion is unpopular, but I hope it will encourage more civility. If you agree, know that you're not alone. Here's an article that supports the formula-positive POV: https://www.health.harvard.edu...