The first cars were disruptive (car vs horse), but EVs are not really disruptive (for the consumer). They compete in a mature ICE vehicle market. Which makes things different.
Don't get me wrong: the future undoubtedly is electric, and there are many use cases where EVs make sense already today (say, move pollution out of high density areas). But right now that is not universally the case for many people. Cost is an issue, and I mean not even lifetime cost for the car, but lifetime cost for the person. I did such a calculation for myself, and once the battery replacement cost is priced in (plus the higher purchase cost for EVs) it did not make financial sense to buy electric - plus I do not have to deal with the current hassles of electric, either.
Right now there are two choices: you either force people to switch (the California and European approach), or you have to make it make economic sense for the average person who really needs a car, for their use cases. Build EVs that people need, for crying out loud, not yet more speed daemons with ridiculous batteries and weight (looking at you, Cyberbeast) that can accelerate faster than a F-1 car yet need more energy than my house in 100 degree F weather. Still waiting for an EV minivan ...
Once the early adopters, willful buyers, and people who want to go from 0-60 mph in under 3 seconds have their vehicle, you need to sell to people who are are actually forced to be reasonable (or simply survive) day-to-day. They are not gonna buy electric anytime soon. Makes no sense for them, and you cannot fault them.
Ironically, it's still Bill Clinton: "It's the economy, stupid!". Which is exactly why Toyota sells so many hybrids (and some even with NiMH batteries): it may be not what we ultimately want, but it is much better environmentally than the pure ICE we have now – and for most people it does not disrupt their lives (or their wallet –they may even be able to replace the battery after ~12 years), while still using a lot less fuel right now (note how consumer hybrids are not sexy fast, mostly ...). And it is easy to convince them to switch. Even if you live with a crap grid.
Oh, and my Mom and Pop garage can still service them reliably, too.