I don't know about where you live, but in Phoenix they have these sensors above most traffic lights that are sensitive to emergency vehicle lights (or something.) Guess what they do? They change the light to allow emergency traffic through. I guess if you really want to get to your destination unimpeded by other traffic you could build your own road. Or you could just use emergency services in an emergency.
I realize that the internet isn't a society funded project but why is everyone so concerned with "getting whats theirs" at everyone else's expense anyway? Because that IS what we're talking about here. Not Cox having the ultimate network that is impossible to saturate - because we know there are applications that will use whatever is possibly available. Consider the alternatives here.
1) Lower bandwidth caps for the same price
2) Much higher prices to pay for massive infrastructure upgrades and higher risk deployment investments.
3) A pay for use service that heavily charges for usage above a certain limit.
4) Enforced monthly bandwidth caps (Which cox does have - and at least for me, do not enforce)
In scenario 1 I would be negatively impacted. Why? I use my internet more heavily after hours for downloading and uploading. I would be limited all the time because of peak usage trends.
In scenario 2 I would be negatively impacted because I would have to pay a hell of a lot more than I do now despite my low network impact during said peak times (IE - when it is a problem)
In scenario 3 I would be negatively impacted because I would get charged out the ASS for bandwidth usage because I use my connection during non peak times. While it does probably cost more, it doesn't interfere with anyone else and it doesn't require massive network upgrades like you're demanding either.
In scenario 4 I might well be limited to only using my connection for work and no file transfers, because I work from home. I have to be available to transfer large files every now and then because sometimes it's required.
In all of the above scenarios, i bet they apply to most other people too. Heavy file transfers during peak usage are already going to be slowed down - I don't think you'll notice much difference if the routers shuffle packet priorities in the buffer because cox has a pretty outstanding network already. other downloads are usually on a "start it and forget it" basis. You can seed your crap overnight - it doesn't matter that much.
Whatever. I'm done trolling this post. Those that get it already get it. those that don't wont. and those that don't give a fuck have bigger problems.