Comment Re: Real question (Score 1) 192
It's the usual trap that the civil union and the religious union are both called marriage so they get conflated. In Europe and the US/Canada it is possible to be in a civil union called "marriage" and not be in a religious union called "marriage". From the civil perspective, it's irrelevant if you are married in a religious ceremony, "marriage" is a civil contract. The involvement of the State is as the ultimate arbiter of contracts, which is the most basic form of government. In Ireland, for instance, religious ministers are also registered civil witnesses, so can witness the contract legally. But the paperwork still has to be submitted to the state.
If the language was more precise separating the two I think that the conversation about things would be easier.
We've designated Marriage as the Civil partnership, and Weddings as a church ceremony, although yes. it does get confused by some. But ya gotta have that marriage license - it's a courtesy extended to ship captains and religious leaders.
In England there have been women marrying themselves, which her would be considered a wedding, because there is not any partnership formed.
There has been the case where women marry their dogs. Look it up. That's still a wedding, dogs cannot enter into partnerships, and that is maximum level creepy as well.