Nerds Make Better Lovers 1148
ultimabaka writes "The New York Daily News, fine bastion of reporting that it is, released an article today discussing the rise of nerd popularity among women in general, and famous women in particular. Detail is given into the dating exploits of Christina Aguilera and Elin Nordegren (nerdy Tiger Woods' supermodel squeeze), among a bunch of regular Janes. Apparently being a nerd is now in?"
Re:Tiger Woods? (Score:3, Informative)
My thoughts exactly. At 6'2 180lbs he's hardly a little guy.
And except that he hasn't got a bad-boy image, and seems a genuinely nice-guy with some actual talent
Re:naturally... (Score:2, Informative)
Try (good_breadwinner + good_hair + muscles) or in Java style, (goodBreadwinner + goodHair + muscles).
J
Re:naturally... (Score:3, Informative)
Ah... here it is (Programming in Visual Basic
So, no, that's not even valid VB variable naming
FWIW, to get back on topic, I've almost gotten a girl BECAUSE I'm a geek (and she most definitely wasn't, FWIW). Then, I try to get the girl with a few geek qualities (but not a geek), and... that didn't work. At least she's a good friend... </rant>
Re:Tiger Woods? (Score:5, Informative)
come on! (Score:4, Informative)
Re:naturally... (Score:5, Informative)
Re:Tiger Woods? (Score:1, Informative)
Re:Tiger Woods? (Score:2, Informative)
A couple notes (Score:3, Informative)
1) Don't stink. Yes, I know you can't tell. Nerd types have had enough cool things happen (code compiled, game beaten, etc) while utterly reeking that we lose the automatic association between hygiene and effective living. I'm serious, everyone else has it, we don't. So just accept:
a) In the morning, you must:
i: Shower. Soap everywhere. It's better to annoy people with longer showers than to annoy them with too short ones. A shower radio can help (this one has MP3 [cctvproducts.com] and a mirror for shaving!).
ii: Brush your teeth and use Listerine. At least occasionally floss.
iii: Put on underarm deodorant. I recommend antiperspirant gels. If you have recurring, serious problems anywhere you sweat alot -- it's fungus, and it needs to die. Tinactin works. If you're out in public, and realize your underarms stink -- squeeze teabags under your armpits in the bathroom. Works well (thank you, worse case scenario guide to sex and dating). Oh, those new body sprays (Axe, etc) may be budget cologne, but reactions to them ain't bad. Don't wear too much of it, though, and no it's not a replacement for a shower.
iv: Wear clean clothes. Your pants and your jacket are the only thing you can re-wear. Everything else goes in the biohazard pile.
b) After school or after work, if you're going out anywhere you need to impress anyone, you are generally expected to do all the above again. Annoying, sure. But even if you don't stink by dinner, you may start ripening by bedtime.
c) Your clothes must fit. Baggy is vastly better than too tight. Can't emphasize this enough. Wear a belt; people really hate seeing asscrack. Don't wear corporate tech t-shirts you got at a trade show, except for Google. They're an exception that proves the rule. Speaking of clothes, no visible pit stains, and if it's ever really, really stunk -- it needs to be washed in hot water, generally with bleach, or the bacteria and fungi that eat your sweat will be primed and ready to excrete the stuff that actually stinks. This is the idea behind undershirts and underwear, by the way. The bleach and hot water make your colored stuff fade.
Regarding wardrobe issues -- girls do like shopping with guys (Ken doll, they're not paying, get to be useful, etc), but you actually can't say things like "I dunno, whatever." Feedback is necessary, even if you don't actually know or care. So say things like, "Bring me two or three things, and I'll tell you which is my favorite of them." You actually get to be honest here -- she'll like all three, this ain't the SAT -- but be confident in whatever you answer, and frankly, it doesn't matter that much so answer quickly.
Shoes matter an absurd amount. Exercise shoes (Nike, Reebok) are only to be worn during exercise.
Regarding diet and exercise -- Atkins does work, but alot of people do end up sick (I was the biggest defender of the program
Exercise, it sucks, I know, they lie. But there's a trick: GBA/PSP while pedaling on a stationary bike works shockingly well, especially while playing an RPG.
If you've got some cash, getting a recumbent exercise bike and plopping it in front of your PS2/Xbox works really well too. Just link gaming to pedaling, and your body will think it's enjoying pedaling while your mind is enjoying the game. Weird, but it happens.
Just remember -- exercise is indeed boring, but it's a lot better than eight hours a day of hard labor.
d) This won't fix everything. There's a world of social learning you need to do. You can't learn the social elements from a Slashdot post (though I
Re:Diary (Score:1, Informative)
http://www.clubrwd.com/forums/index.php?s=424bf80
You can find various other incarnations of it out there.
I'm a GEEK, damn it, not a nerd! (Score:1, Informative)
Along came a lady.
She was attracted to me for some reason (she thinks I'm really cute), she bought me drinks, she ASKED ME OUT, and we've been together for nearly a year now.
Oh, did I mention she is really hot, sexy, smart, creative, and more than fifteen years younger than I am? Has more formal education than I, earns more money?
There's hope for you, my fellow geeks!
OUT OF MOM'S BASEMENT AND INTO THE STREETS!
Re:Diary (Score:4, Informative)
Re:naturally... (Score:3, Informative)
A shy person may, in fact, really be an extrovert at heart, but be unable to act on it. One can deal with the shyness by treating it as a cognitive-behavioral problem, and one can still be introverted and have a healthy social (and romantic) life, just as many extroverts can get the benefits of time by themselves, although eventually they will feel drained if they do not get some social input.
The energy issue is distinct from the question of inhibition.
FYI (Score:3, Informative)
geek != guy (Score:3, Informative)
The entire article reeked of the assumption that geeks are men.
At least bother to state "male geeks" if that's what you're going to talk about.
Nerds or ugly rich guys? (Score:2, Informative)
Re:Confidence is earned, you don't just grow it. (Score:1, Informative)
You might gain it just the same way as you did at work. What you need is the experience of success. Do not wait for the one big success. Make small steps, they are more likely to be successful. A few suggestions:
Do this for a while. This alone will not get you a girl friend, but it will make you more confident. You are now a handsome guy who receives smiles from complete strangers. Congratulations, you have mastered level 1. Ready for new challenges?
Again, do this for a while. This alone will not get you a girl friend, but it will make you more confident. You are now a handsome guy who receives smiles from complete strangers, starts conversations with them, and has a couple of female friends. Implicitly, you also gained some knowledge on what turns women on and what doesn't. Congratulations, you have
Re:Wrong snack... (Score:2, Informative)
The skit is better, the whole thing is supposed to be a warning about D&D, 'Satan's Game'.
I remember hearing it for the first time while driving from Oklahoma City to Wichita to catch the train to Chicago...
(Hmm...reading that back...Too geeky, even for me AND this article...must make sure to click post anonymously.)
Re:Tiger Woods? (Score:3, Informative)
http://www.roman-britain.org/places/_roman_britai