How To Make Friends on the Telephone 327
Dan writes "What a wonderful find--it seems since the internet, we've forgotten the correct way to communicate with people. So here is a book to teach us the proper etiquette, as well as how to handle complex modern communications devices."
as i learned last night in a dance club... (Score:2, Funny)
complex modern communications devices (Score:5, Funny)
Dude, this is
Ok, thats great (Score:5, Funny)
Re:Ok, thats great (Score:3, Funny)
Gr8 (Score:1, Funny)
Re:complex modern communications devices (Score:2, Funny)
Telephone? (Score:4, Funny)
The hardest thing... (Score:5, Funny)
Re:Ok, thats great (Score:5, Funny)
She did everything but come up and ring our doorbell. Which would have worked: we were at home.
Sometimes technology can cause people to forget the obvious ways of doing things.
What? (Score:5, Funny)
WTF do you want?
These are trying times (Score:4, Funny)
1) Hey, I'm about to e-mail you three
2) Hi there. I need to fax you the final proposal. I'm not trying to get you to re-finance your mortgage.
3) Did you, by chance, e-mail me three
See? The telephone isn't obsolete at all.
Re:Phone skills are definitely declining... (Score:5, Funny)
You dial the number, with all info in hand.
*ring*
*ring*
*ring*
[them] Hello?
[you] Hi, I'm having some problems with my cable modem connection. My name is Papa Smurf, account number 1234567, and the mac address on my NIC is 00:00:00:00:00:00.
[them] Uh, what? This is Joanne's Haircare?
With or without a modem? (Score:4, Funny)
In a related story, I forget what the program was -- something that you can pop AT commands to directly...but a long time ago, my sister refused to relinquish the line so I did ATA while she was on. Kept the beeeeeeeeep on long enough for her to hang up. And thus began the great phone wars.
As far as real phone manners go, there should be a true syn-ack handshake for it. syn-> phone rings. "Hello, my name is..." terminating with the fin "um...I'm sorry, so in so does not live here anymore" [No Carrier]
Anyone that doesn't follow the protocol shouldn't be allowed to communicate.
Re:Communication communication everywhere... (Score:1, Funny)
Re:The only thing you need to know about telephone (Score:4, Funny)
No? How about just plain "WHAT!" or "FUCK YOU" and a nice healthy SLAM! Or "DUDE! I'm, like, in the MIDDLE of some serious SHIT. Call back." But not "Hello"? How about "Hi, how are you, I have gas"? I mean, a suggestion as to why "hello" is so bad, or some alternatives might be nice.
Seriously, "Hello" followed by perhaps your name or department is JUST FINE.
Using a telephone is like ... (Score:2, Funny)
You see it in '40/'50 movies a lot, but that doesn't mean it's in vogue today.
Seinfeld obligatory quote! (Score:2, Funny)
Puddy: High-Five!
Re:The only thing you need to know about telephone (Score:5, Funny)
First day, didn't know everybody's name. Phone rings, German geezer answers the phone and simply says "tits"!!
Different phone rings, another geezer answers, says what sounded "fuck"!
Me starts to think this is the Stuttgart office of the Tourette's society. Later learn that their names were "Titze" and "Foerch".
Oh, how we laughed.
Ha ha.
Re:as i learned last night in a dance club... (Score:4, Funny)
talking over the phone, via e-mail is not as clear cut as body language.
I think that I can express myself better over the phone, thank you. Going to a club and using my body language while dancing could send the message "Hey, ladies, our children could be beaten up everyday at school!".
For the next time (Score:5, Funny)
telemarketers (Score:5, Funny)
Re:as i learned last night in a dance club... (Score:3, Funny)
My body language seems to translate as, "Do as I say and no one gets hurt..."
Re:as i learned last night in a dance club... (Score:3, Funny)
How can I possibly say that over the phone and not sound like a retard?
Telephone??? (Score:3, Funny)
Re:Communication communication everywhere... (Score:2, Funny)
welcome home buddy!!!
Make friends on the Telephone? (Score:3, Funny)
Cringe making TV advert (Score:3, Funny)
The headline eerily reminded me of that one.
Re:The only thing you need to know about telephone (Score:3, Funny)
I never tell them who I am at work though. No-one would ever ask for me by name so it avoids them taking the opportunity to quiz me on the health of their relative and instead I can just pass the call on to someone else.
I have also mastered complete ignorance of the noise of the phone, so I can usually out-wait anyone within hearing distance so they answer it first.
Re:My thoughts (Score:3, Funny)
Shortly after we got wifi at my company, someone I know was in a bathroom, and there's a guy in the stall talking on the phone. The guy says "Let me send you that file...", there's the sound of typing and he says "there you should have it".
The guy was actually connected to the network with his laptop from the bathroom!
A more recent technology etiquette book (Score:4, Funny)
Excerpt:
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Re:Phone skills are definitely declining... (Score:4, Funny)
Perhaps they have different phone customs in India?
Ford Motor Co. (Score:5, Funny)
In the Detroit area, one of the suburban area codes (248-xxx-xxxx) is 248.
At Ford headquarters, one of the local city exchanges is 248. (xxx-248-xxxx).
Whenever anyone from downtown Detroit tries to call someone from the suburbs with a 248 area code, and doesn't dial a "1" to indicate a long distance call, they get some unhappy engineer at Ford.
It usually goes something like this:
*ring* Ford employee notices local number on Caller ID they don't recognize...
"Ford Motor Co. this is xxxx"
*In very strong urban accent* "Is Tiniqua there?"
"Excuse me? This is For-"
"If you don't put Tiniqua on the phone, some shit is goin' down. Who the f*** are you, cracka?"
"This isn't who you tried to dial. This is For-"
"WHAT? You sayin' I stu-pid too? I can't dial no phone? I don't think so. That's it! I'm comin' down there to find out where tha hell she is!"
*click* *sigh*
*true story*
Re:How long can I hold up... (Score:4, Funny)
I'll be sure to load the page as delicately and slowly as possible.
Re:Ok, thats great (Score:5, Funny)
Curious. I've never had anybody try to sell me a candy bar in the head before. And do they put the candy bar in the head as a result of knocking on the door? Or is the desire to sell caused by the knocking, and then the candy bar is added to the head after the fact?
Quite an existential dilemma you have there. No wonder you just want to shoot the damn kids and be done with it.
Over 7 years ago... (Score:5, Funny)
A side effect of this is that every incoming call on the mystery line was a wrong number. Following my high standards of telephone etiquette, I started off politely greeting callers with "Hello, this is the wrong number.", which (despite being factual, formal, polite and clear english) seemed to baffle the vast majority of callers.
Responses varied from polite confusion, through stubborn insistence that I must either BE the person the other party wanted to speak to or at least able but unwilling to put me though to them, all the way to someone who called 10 times in as many minutes asking for "Dave", getting more annoyed each time. On the 10th call I said "OK, you win this is Dave, what do you want?", at which point he hung up on me.
After a while I got bored with politeness and switched to making prank answers (like prank calls, but the other way round), the objective of which was to keep a straight face while cracking everyone else in the office up. The most successful of these was 'dial-a-duck', the premium rate porn service for duck fetishists, which involved answering the phone with "Hi, welcome to Dial-a-Duck", and then carring on the resulting conversation using only the word "quack", in as seductive a manner as possible.
Re:as i learned last night in a dance club... (Score:2, Funny)
Re:Over 7 years ago... (Score:4, Funny)
A side effect of this is that every incoming call on the mystery line was a wrong number.
I had a similar situation in my fraternity in college... We had a payphone that had no ringer or coin slot.. it would only take credit card calls. I found the number to it by dialing the local ANI code (how I figured that out is a whole other story), but I also worked out where the wire went and connected up the light in the "booth" to the line such that it would blink when someone called it. The main reason for doing this was so that we could get calls on that line. Easy hack. I didn't want to put in a ringer because the phone guy would get ticked at us about it, but he never noticed the blinking light.
In any case, I found out that we got a lot of wrong numbers on that line because somebody else knew the number as one that was "never answered" and gave it away to people all the time, appearantly. There was some girl that was appearantly using it to give to guys in bars and clubs and such. You invent your own way to mess with these guys heads, we probably used them all for that one.
In another case, after we rewired the building to have individual lines to the rooms, I was living in another building that had an interesting property on its phone number.. The number for the courthouse was something like 341-2345, which the number to our line was 364-1234, and both "341" and "364" were normal prefixes for that area. Meaning that if you dialed the number without thinking too much, you could dial the wrong prefix, but continue the number and get us instead.. Like if you dialed 364-12345. The upshot is that we got a lot of wrong numbers for people wanting to know how much the fine for their speeding tickets was. I mean a *lot* of wrong numbers, like at least 3 or 4 a week. Eventually, me and the other people in that building started giving out amounts of the fines and addresses to send the tickets to. Just random ones at first, then we'd tell them addresses of our friends, or the post office, or various buildings on the campus. Lots of fun. Gave the people grief about speeding and such.. Tell them that there was no fine, they'd have to go to jail for a weekend, just crazy stuff we thought up. It was all probably illegal though, as we were impersonating police officers.
Re:how about "FUCK OFF" (Score:3, Funny)
What's your username again?
*mumble*
>clickety click...< Now you have plenty of free disk space.
Re:Ok, thats great (Score:4, Funny)
Seems a young woman was standing outstide her car and the remote on the keyfob (to unlock the doors) had run down its batteries. She just kept pushing the button, getting more and more frantic that she was locked out of the car. She considered even going to one of the stores at the lot and buying a battery, but didn't know what kind or how to do it.
So my friend walks up, asks for her car keys, and sticks the key in the car door lock and turns the key.
He said her expression was priceless.