Journal cooleyb1's Journal: relief 5
luckily, the fears drawn up about the conversation that I needed to encounter in was all for not, it actually went much better than planned and this I am quite happy about.
Even though the issue is still left unresolved in a sense I feel that there is some sort of solution.
What I had found was that sometimes things are better left unresolved. That bringing a subject up to satisfy your own curiosity and resolve your own concerns can hurt others and that internalizing your pain sometimes is the right thing to do even though people always say that you need to express your feelings. So, in effect, I find that contrary to popular belief, even expressing things properly, can quite often be the wrong thing to do.
Regardless, Im glad that the conversation is over and that I do not have to open it up again. The best case scenario is to let sleeping dogs lie and deal with only my own emotions about the situation, not wonder whether it is true or false.
Good insight into feelings (Score:1)
This also ties in with your previous JE about communication. It's generally easy to communicate information. It's gene
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hi (Score:1)
not knowing at all what your situation is, i'd like to say one thing anyway. internalizing feelings is not the same as not telling the person that causes you those feelings. i would say that in most cases finding a way to channel feelings or let them dissipate is better than internalizing them. but you're right that it's a good idea to consider others.
there you go. you don't know me and i'm already telling you stuff like this. hope
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Re:hi (Score:1)
well i don't know you, but it sounds like whatever happens or is happening, you're going to be ok. of course, if blinder thinks you're alright, i should have known that already.