loveandpeace's Journal: feeling dumb

okay. where do i find the "make someone a friend" link? update: i copied the link from someone's comment: http://slashdot.org/zoo.pl?op=check&type=friend&uid=628741 and put in the correct user id. i found the correct user id by going to the frend's journals link under my journal and searching for the nickname of a friend. so, while it's sort of cheating and is a bit roundabout, it works.