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My personal opinion... (Score:1)
A few years back, almost 12 I guess now, a friend and I were at one of the local malls in the food court around closing time. There was a line in front of us of a number of people, and no one behind us. The manager of the McDs came out and said that the people in front of us were the last people they were serving. My friend and I then explain, in less than pleasent words that we would not eat at a McDs again because of this manager's choice to not ser
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I would agree normally, but I don't think that it applies to statements under duress.
Also (with regards to your McDonalds example), I don't think it means that you can never change your mind in the future. You were honest and meant it when you said it and you followed through. If at some later point, something changes (a McDonalds manager does something really good, or you just decide that it's enough) that doesn't make you a liar retroactively.
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I actually think that giving him the speech about now he has his integrity that tips the balance to not reporting him. It would make it like punishing him for having integrity.
being optimistic (Score:1)
You could just make it a habit to go to the business and say 'hello' to the kid while you are there just to nudge his conscience. Make him squirm a bit.
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Meh (Score:2)
It's one of those "what difference does it make" things, you're not going to accomplish anything by turning him in.
Let it slide (Score:2)
Oh, and might I suggest a nice pair of fuzzy handcuffs, to secure said purse to yourself in the future?
I would let it go. (Score:2)
I had something returned to me once and I didn't give a reward. I don't know that they would have accepted it, though. It was in my freshman year of college, I came out to my car to find a note on my windshield telling me to call a number. My wallet had fallen on the ground when I got out of the car the night before. Somebody had found it and left their phone numbe
Since you asked. (Score:1)
-You did say you wouldn't, even if it was under duress.
-Diego may have friends that work at the establishment who may remember you as the person that got him and his friend fired. So unless you never want to go there again, I would stand by the promise of not involving the manager.
-Diego might not have been the thief. It might have been his associate. Diego gets a call from the girls at work, finds out about
Mission accomplished (Score:2)
Breaking your word - and risking your integrity by doing so - may be worth it if
* you know (beyond a reasonable doubt) that he stole it
* you think he'll do it again.
I think that neither test seems really clear from your description. In particular, I think that you have given him an opportunity to learn that honesty can be rewarded. If you do something now to make sure he gets
Assumptions (Score:2)
Everyone so far in this thread has assumed that Diego was the guilty one, and that covering for "his friend" was itself a cover story.
A "gut feeling" is not proof. If he had in fact been the one who took it, why would he even bother calling back the next day? His nervousness could very well be explained by his suspicion as to what had really happened, and how he was going to balance (1) dealing with the individual involved, and (2) dealing with you, and (3) dealing with the company. Wouldn't you be nervo
Go half-way. (Score:1)
On the one hand, tomhudson is right: there's no evidence that Diego is the one that took it. He might have known who did the night it went missing, but that only makes him an accomplice.
On the other hand, Diego returned it with its contents intact. That means a lot. Stress that point with the manager, if you choose to talk with him.
As to Diego's nervousness, what man isn't nervo
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En Anglais, "Truth, Duty, Valour"
You gave your word: game, set, match. In the end, the only thing you truly own is your integrity.
Sun Tzu is *not* overrated - but then again, neither is he the be-all, end-all of strategy. A true student reads many sources and draws their own conclusions.
In Western society, Clauswitz is more influential.
DG
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"The Art of War" is notable not only as a historical
others have handled the "your word" issue -- (Score:2)